Leading the Pivot | Permission to Be Real


Welcome to Wednesday! As you step into the natural pivot point of the week, here’s a brief moment of encouragement and perspective to help you lead the pivots in your life.


Leading the Pivot | Permission to Be Real

Practical wisdom for the pivots that shape us.


The Moment

Sometimes it only takes one honest sentence.
“This has been hard.”
And something in the room changes.

Not because the problem disappears, but because the pretending does. The air softens. Shoulders drop. A team meeting steadies. A family conversation quiets.


The Pivot

Mental health is not separate from the rest of life. It is the foundation under it. The unseen framework we are standing on while we work, parent, partner, lead, and keep showing up day by day.

There are moments, sometimes seasons, that shake us at the core. When we manage it in silence, we can look fine and still feel as though we can barely stand on our own. But when someone names what is real with care, it does something powerful. It creates psychological safety without announcing it. It signals that truth is allowed here.

Authenticity does not need a speech. It needs permission.

Sometimes permission looks like a simple sentence that makes room for a human answer. Sometimes it looks like listening without fixing. Sometimes it looks like a leader, a friend, or a parent going first.


The Move

Today someone will be tempted to keep it together, maybe you. Consider what permission you are offering, or withholding, in the response you choose. There is honesty waiting for room.

What truth might finally be able to breathe if it knew it would be met with care?


Cheering you on to your best life,

Amanda Crooks, M.Div, BCC, CMCS, GCDF
Board Certified Coach | Leadership, Career & Well-Being

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